With some of the messages I’ve been receiving, I thought it might be best to go over a few resources. I’m getting harassed on Facebook. What do I do? You can report any post, message or conversation as abusive on Facebook/Messenger, whether it’s a secret conversation or not. The same is true of Instagram. Snapchat … More Social Media Harassment Resources
I thought about this long and hard, and I could be glad Ex-Director is reading this blog. But only if the message he sent me expressed his truth. If he’s open to the idea that he was wrong… if he’s beginning to accept that he behaved in a way that deserves revulsion… if he’s ready to … More Part Five: Sexual Harassment
In a bit of break from the deeply serious week we’ve all been having, I present to you Love Soup Episode Three: “Friendiversary & Stuff.” Max and I celebrated our 19th Friendiversary last week. So we talked a little bit about us and our relationship this week. https://lovesouppodcast.podbean.com/mf/web/ae33se/Love_Soup_Episode_3.mp3 Download this episode (right click and save)
I’m pretty upset at the moment, so forgive me if this post is a bit less diplomatic than I strive to be usually. My count is up to 12, and it’s been a rough morning. Someone has been commenting on my blog and suggests I sue my old company. So let’s talk about that for … More Suing & Rules of Engagement
This series is going to be longer than I planned. The experience and fallout of it all has become so much more complicated than I even began to conceive of when I started this. I don’t have the words to talk about all of that yet, though. Before I get into what I do want … More Part Four: Sexual Harassment
Some of the shade I was thrown yesterday was “If it bothered you so much, why didn’t you tell him to f*ck off?” Okay. Let’s talk about that. Because this is a key takeaway I want you to have from this conversation. And this is a conversation. I welcome the discourse because we all grow … More Part Three: Sexual Harassment
After today and yesterday‘s posts, I’ve experienced an outpouring of support and love from my community, and even overtures from people who have never been close to me at all. I’ve also received some shade, which I did expect, and heard about quite a bit more through mutual friends, but nowhere near the level or amount … More Part Two and a Half: Sexual Harassment
Mature Material Warning: This post contains screenshots of conversations containing sexual overtones. After my post yesterday, a few people have reached out to me. I’ve become aware that my messages (highlights are below) are absolutely tame compared to some of the filth he sent. I started this mini-series about an experience I recently had with … More Part Two: Sexual Harassment (mature material warning)
I thought for a long time about whether or not I was going to write this post, which was why I went radio silent for a few days. My brain was stuck on a pendulum. One day, I’d be talking to the couple of friends I felt okay discussing this with, and I was very … More Days 50-55 Part One: Sexual Harassment
For our first podcast, we rambled a bit longer than expected. We decided we’d keep them to 30 minutes going forward, so Episode Two is a bit faster of a listen. Episode One: Max, Kaitlin & Stuff https://lovesouppodcast.podbean.com/mf/web/jgwr7h/Podcast_Episode_One.mp3 Download this episode (right click and save) Episode Two: Teen Rom Coms, Netflix Originals & Stuff … More Day 49: Love Soup Episodes One & Two
Not Quite Flying Solo 